Porn is just a fantasy, and our fantasies do not dictate our sexual orientations or identities.įor instance, I'll confess my own porn preference: I'm a surefire lesbian, and I only watch straight porn. I find lesbian porn hilarious, but there is a realness to straight porn (at least through my tainted, gay eyes) that I can get down and dirty with. It doesn't mean you're gay, or straight, or bi or anything. I'm going to send you home with a very important PSA: It's totally OK to watch any kind of porn.